I am a midwest girl. Grew up between Chicago and Minneapolis. I know winter well. It does not rain during the winter in the corridor of the US that I have spent the better part of my life. So, you can imagine my complete state of awe when, last January at 2am, a thunderstorm descended upon the city of Chicago. I was driving my little Prius home from work amongst the slosh and snow that is usually January in Chicago when all of the sudden it started to pour. I pulled over and as my windows began to fog, I sat there in amazement. I’m not sure why that moment hit me so hard but I realized it was one of those things that comes along only once in a very long while. It is rare. However, since thinking about it, there are thousands of moments like that in life, those that deserve a pause. The moments we too easily roll through while focusing on the next thing. They happen everyday.
About a year after that thunderstorm in January I up and moved to Paris. I didn’t know a soul here and the best french I had was Bonjour, which I still say with a horrible American accent. People have asked me why I chose Paris and there are a multitude of reasons. One of the front runners is the french take their time, for better or worse. I want to know that mindset. I want to understand how work is simply something you have to do in order to live life. As cliché as it is, I want to take the time to smell the flowers, not race by them on my way somewhere else. Maybe this way it won’t take a thunderstorm in January to get my attention.
Like everything in life, I believe this takes work…slowing down. I need accountability and structure when it comes to a task such as this, hence the blog. If for nothing else, it is my account of the things in life that give me pause for even a moment. Things that make me smile like a kid. Whether it be the crazy woman in full ball attire walking down a busy boulevard in Paris or the most amazing latte in LA, it is something.
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